How to Have Sexual Married Life? (Meaningful Tips) – Be a True Loving Companion

For millions of men, it is very tough to have sexual married life. Especially in long term relationships, men lose the profound sexual passion. They become emotionally absent and put their relationship under stress. Therefore, the adversity of the relationship makes their women cheat on them.

“YOU HAVE TO BE AN EXTRAORDINARY MAN IN ORDER TO HAVE SEXUAL MARRIED LIFE.”

A woman desires an extraordinary sexual man in her life. She extremely loves when you show your sexual lust for her and make her feel desirable. She wants you to not only win her emotions but also be her loving companion. Unfortunately, most of the men only focus on giving their women orgasms instead of winning several layers of their emotions. Consequently, she restricts her sexual emotions and attempt to find a true loving companion.

Always remember, “YOU CAN NEVER HAVE A THRILLING SEXUAL MARRIED LIFE WITHOUT BEING A TRUE LOVING COMPANION.”

1. HOW TO BE A TRUE LOVING COMPANION?

A true loving companion is immensely meaningful for a woman. He is responsible, loyal, loving, authoritative and interesting. He understands the actual emotional needs of his woman and tries his best to fulfill them with his extra attention. He knows that a woman needs to be cherished and loved each and every moment. That’s why; he always provides his woman special treatment and relish sexual married life.

If you want to keep on experiencing the sexual passion in your relationship by being a true loving companion then here I am giving you some meaningful tips that will make her fall in love with you again and again.

• A woman desires profound compassion in her relationship. She immensely loves a man who can risk his life for her. Although, there is always profound compassion in early stages of relationship but, unfortunately, the boring rituals in relationships eliminate the harmony and passionate sexual activities.

Do meaningful things for her for enriching profound compassion in your relationship. For example, compliment and appreciate her little things with clarity. Let her know that she is inevitably good in everything and you appreciate even small efforts of her.

Hold her hands often while giving her meaningful kisses. Welcome her in home with warm long hugs. Make coffee/tea for her in evening and give her roses/tulips/chocolates without any reason.

“A WOMAN IMMENSELY LOVES THAT MAN WHO DOES THOUGHTFUL THINGS FOR HER, WITHOUT EXPECTING HER TO JUMP ON HIS BONE.”

• You need to fulfill her emotional legitimate needs for being a true loving companion. You are not her friend, you are her sexual partner. So, always do extraordinary effort to support her in every area of her life and protect her.

There are plenty of other things which you can do in order to make her fall in love with you again and again. For example, highlight your accomplishments and give entire credit to her, in front of other people. Tell people that if you are successful in your life/work then it is only because you have a great wife. You made everything possible only because of her. Give all the credit to her and make her your soul mate.

Increase her values in front of others and provide her sources of harmony. Make her feel that she is the most special lady in this world and she always deserve special treatment.

“ALWAYS KEEP HER VALUES HIGH. DO NOT LET ANYONE JOKE ABOUT HER OR YELL AT HER. KEEP HER LIKE YOUR QUEEN AND RAISE HER STATUS.”

A true loving companion provides a lot of fruitful time to his woman and relish sexual married life.

2. THRILLING SEXUAL MARRIED LIFE.

A woman’s life is exclusively concerned with thrilling sexual activities. Most of the women do not like the way their husband/man loves them. They want a man who can control them and ravish them sexually with his masculine power.

Unfortunately, the boring sexual rituals of an average man turn off a woman emotionally and sexually. A woman feels confusion and becomes overwhelmed with boring routines. She is not particularly attracted to one personality or same form of sex. Sometimes she wants to be ravished by a masculine man and sometimes she wants emotional romantic sex. Ultimately, she wants thrill and excitement in every form of love making and romance.

“IF YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR SEXUAL MARRIED LIFE WITH FULL OF THRILL AND EXCITEMENT THEN USE THE POWER OF ANTICIPATION.”

Use the power of anticipation in your sexual moves. There are plenty of moves that make a woman thrill with excitement and turn her into a sexual being instantly. For example,

• Put your hands on her hips while enjoying her lips. Squeeze her hips slowly and do slow sensational kissing. Slow down your kisses but keep the passion on. Slow passionate kisses are more powerful than fast kisses. Do this in unpopulated area and enhance the sexual sensations inside her body. She will lust after you entire day after this type of sexual kissing.

• Stand close to her while talking and rub your fingers on her chest softly. This move is full of extreme anticipation and makes her heart beat fast. Try this move next time on your wife and notice the sexual emotions on her face.

• Give extraordinary special attention to her lips during foreplay and lovemaking sessions. Millions of women complain that their partners avoid their lips and focus on other erogenous parts of their body. So, give proper attention to their lips, not only in intimate moments but also without any reason.

“KISSING IS THE INTEGRAL PART OF A SEXUAL MARRIED LIFE.”

Is it Sexual Addiction?

You may wonder if you or someone you know has a sexual addiction. You may say something like one of the following-

  • I think about sex all the time. Am I a sex addict?
  • I just could not stop myself from having an affair.
  • Anytime I see a massage parlor, I have to stop in for sex.
  • I spend a lot of time in strip clubs.
  • I spend a lot of time looking for one-night stands.
  • I look at pornography online. Am I addicted to pornography?
  • I spend a lot of time in chat rooms, looking for online sex.
  • I masturbate six times a day. It hurts and I’d like to stop but I can’t.
  • I engage in dangerous sexual activities like unprotected sex with strangers or peeping in windows.
  • I worry about sex a lot.
  • I want sex much more than my partner.

If any of these seem to fit, you may fall into one of these categories-

  • Sexual Obsession
  • Sexual Obsession/Compulsion
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Healthy Sexuality

Let’s consider each one of these in turn.

Sexual Obsession

A person with a sexual obsession may find themselves having unpleasant thoughts about sex frequently and repeatedly. These thoughts are unwanted, intrusive and disturbing. The intrusive thoughts involve acts that you find repugnant, distasteful or worrisome. You may never have acted on these thoughts and in fact you may know that the thoughts are unrealistic, but the thoughts intrude anyway. Examples include-

  • Rape, child abuse or bestiality
  • Getting someone pregnant by shaking their hand
  • Fear that your partner is unfaithful, despite evidence to the contrary
  • Extreme and unreasonable fear that you are homosexual (beyond normal coming out concerns)
  • Extreme fear of AIDS
  • Profane thoughts combining religion and sex
  • Any other disturbing and unwanted thoughts involving sex

Even though you do not want these thoughts, the thoughts intrude anyway. In common speech someone might say that if you think about sex all the time you are “obsessed with sex.” But if you are experiencing pleasurable thoughts and fantasies about sex, these do not fit the definition of a sexual obsession. With a sexual obsession, the intrusive sexual thoughts are not experienced as pleasant.

A person with a sexual obsession is generally under a great deal of stress and distress. They may find it difficult to enjoy a normal life with healthy sexuality, due to the intrusive thoughts.

Sexual Obsession/Compulsion

A person with a sexual compulsion may attempt to deflect their unwanted thoughts through a repetitive behavior such as-

  • Not looking at women or men
  • Avoiding locker rooms, showers, and beaches
  • Not hugging children or avoiding friends with children
  • Excessive washing of the genitals
  • Repeating certain thoughts a certain number of times to ward off the “bad” thoughts
  • Ritualistic and rigid patterns of behavior, such as always, without exception, eat dinner, then get on the computer, download pornography and masturbate

Sexual compulsions can cause physical harm, health issues, relationship issues, financial problems and legal problems. Most people with a sexual compulsion want to stop but feel they cannot or must not.

Sexual Addiction

Originally, addiction was used in medicine to refer to a condition where over time a patient needed more and more of a drug in order to get the same effect (tolerance) and would suffer physical symptoms if they quit taking the drug (withdrawal). Recently, people have begun to realize that engaging in some activities can have some of the same characteristics that a drug addiction does, both in terms of tolerance, withdrawal and some of the secondary characteristics of addiction. Some of the characteristics of a sexual addiction are-

  • Need more and more sex
  • Need more and more kinds of sex
  • Unable to tolerate not having sex
  • Unable to stop despite having tried
  • Think about sex all the time-planning how to obtain sex, reminiscing about past sex, fantasizing about future sex
  • Commit illegal or dangerous acts to obtain sex
  • Spend large sums of money that you cannot afford on sex
  • Unable to pass up a possible opportunity for sex

Sexual addictions can cause all the same problems as a sexual compulsion including physical harm, health issues, relationship issues, financial problems and legal problems. A person with a sexual addiction may or may not see themselves as having a problem.

Healthy Sexuality

If you have a sexual obsession, a sexual compulsion or a sexual addiction, a good goal is to modify the way you think and act so that you have a healthy sexuality. Here are some of the characteristics of healthy sexuality-

  • You enjoy your sex life
  • Sex does not cause you physical, health, relationship, financial or legal harm
  • You are comfortable with your sexual practices, sexual orientation and gender identity
  • It is healthy to be concerned with some aspects of sexuality, as long as such concerns are reasonable and appropriate-
    • It is healthy to have a reasonable concern about catching a sexually transmitted disease
    • Healthy people occasionally have thoughts about sexual practices that they do not want to act on
    • Healthy people may occasionally wonder if their partner is faithful or is right for them

Summary

Not everyone that is concerned about their sexual practices is a sex addict. However, if your sexual practices or your thoughts about sex are causing you distress, then you may want to seek out a professional who can guide you back onto the path to healthy sexuality.